We want to be loved, accepted, respected, understood and have partners who are attracted, honest and committed to us. Witness this article by Laura Hilgerswhich does a great job of setting up a straw man argument and knocking it down. Therefore, men are ridiculous and unrealistic. But sexist behavior exists offline, just like it does on dating apps. This is simply another medium.
Can you repeat that? did he mean by that? Can you repeat that? was he implying?! Instead of ahead of you and considering, I would have consume on the offensive. A drama-free girlfriend? More like the male fantasy of an opinionless, malleable, no-personality woman as a result of his side. Today, I know a bite. She understands that she is accountable for them; nobody can make her feel a certain way. She is only involved in necessary conflicts, by no means in pointless things or minor perceived slights. If confrontation is needed, she does her best to de-escalate the conflict, rather than escalate it.
I used to think that true adoration should be passionate and intense. Ahead of him, I took well over a year off from dating anyone acutely because my ex-boyfriend might decide he wanted me back, and he called every month or so to assessment in. After all, he said he loved me. This was all actual exciting compared to my life by the office. It was very distracting as well. It demands your awareness immediately.